我是内向而且缺乏激情的人,总喜欢闷在家里,于是自诩为“大隐隐于市”。
如果要过这样一种生活:晚上去唱K或逛街,与朋友一见面就是讨论品牌店的折扣价或是旧时同学的婚姻状态。再或者是周末去逛楼市,然后把积累十年的工资交给房地产公司,实现有房梦之后再过着30年按时每月还贷的生活。
在现行社会规律下,这种生活对于三十而立的人来说再正常不过了。
而在我看来却很繁杂,作为人类人体,不应如此舍本取末,我会难以承受而会崩溃。
这种心理究竟是不健康的还是在逃避?那要看对于简单生活的态度了,我虽不过敢说乐于其中,虽看来“没有激情”或“很消极”,也没有老庄所说的”逍遥“或是“乐于其中”,但我至少很平静。其实我给那些词语加了引号也表明了态度了。
极淡、极简、极静……特摘抄相关圈内人士的箴言,以自勉或共勉。
“A good traveller has no fixed plans, and is not intent on arriving.” – Lao Tzu
“He who is contented is rich.” – Lao Tzu
“Be Content with what you have; rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you.” – Lao Tzu
“Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.” – Confucius
“Simplicity is the essence of happiness.” – Cedric Bledsoe
“Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.” – Leonardo da Vinci
“Less is more.” – Ludwig Mies van der Rohe
“Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius – and a lot of courage – to move in the opposite direction.” – E.F. Schumacker
“… in all the things, the supreme excellence is simplicity.” – Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
“Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away.” – Antoine de Saint-Exupe
“It looks like you can write a minimalist piece without much bleeding. And you can. But not a good one.” – David Foster Wallace
“The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary so that the necessary may speak.” – Hans Hofmann
“Simplicity, clarity, singleness: these are the attributes that give our lives power and vividness and joy.” – Richard Halloway
“We don’t need to increase our goods nearly as much as we need to scale down our wants. Not wanting something is as good as possessing it.” – Donald Horban
“Eliminate physical clutter. More importantly, eliminate spiritual clutter.” – D.H. Mondfleur